I have a twitter site that I am keeping up to date at the moment, it can be reached at http://www.twitter.com/pauljolliffe
I had a facebook profile but for various reasons deactivated it.
Saturday, 30 May 2009
Monday, 25 May 2009
It's been even longer...
I didn't realise that it's been nearly a year since my last post and what a year it has been.
A lot has happened in that time, I have split from my partner of 14 years, started to see someone else, but that didn't work out for various reasons.
It was a painful time of my life and also a confusing time. I made mistakes and also let my heart make decisions that I really should have at least allowed my head to get a vote on. I treated someone badly who deserved to be treated better and also "backed the wrong horse" in the process, I really thought I understood people better, but I guess I was wrong.
I've learnt a lot about people and life in the process, but more importantly I've learnt a huge amount about me and what I want. I think process as painful as it has been has allowed me to grow as a person.
I learnt to clay pidgeon shoot, mainly as a way of dealing with the stress of the breakup. I can recommend it to anyone who has never tried it, you really have to switch off otherwise you will miss the targets. I have discovered an inner interior designer in me and started the long process of redecorating the house.
It's not all been bad, just when I thought I would be alone for a while a friend from my past came back into my life. It really was a "sliding doors" moment, a chance email at the right time and the rest as they say is history.
Hopefully I'll be able to update my blog more frequently.
A lot has happened in that time, I have split from my partner of 14 years, started to see someone else, but that didn't work out for various reasons.
It was a painful time of my life and also a confusing time. I made mistakes and also let my heart make decisions that I really should have at least allowed my head to get a vote on. I treated someone badly who deserved to be treated better and also "backed the wrong horse" in the process, I really thought I understood people better, but I guess I was wrong.
I've learnt a lot about people and life in the process, but more importantly I've learnt a huge amount about me and what I want. I think process as painful as it has been has allowed me to grow as a person.
I learnt to clay pidgeon shoot, mainly as a way of dealing with the stress of the breakup. I can recommend it to anyone who has never tried it, you really have to switch off otherwise you will miss the targets. I have discovered an inner interior designer in me and started the long process of redecorating the house.
It's not all been bad, just when I thought I would be alone for a while a friend from my past came back into my life. It really was a "sliding doors" moment, a chance email at the right time and the rest as they say is history.
Hopefully I'll be able to update my blog more frequently.
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